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Partner just left

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Crazylife38 · 27/09/2024 06:03

Hi all just after abit of support and advice. So I have been with my partner on and off for 5 1/2 years things were OK until he started disappearing out every day , suddenly all affection intimacy stopped , then the other day he went out at in the afternoon and never came home , Monday he messaged saying that he needs to move out for abit before he loses his head and he's sick of the bull sht ( the bull sht being me asking him to treat Me right and help with our child) he says there's no one else but I just can't get my head round it how someone can just do that to someone with no explanation. 2weeks ago he was talking about doing more to the house etc now this it just doesn't make sense ?

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Luddite26 · 27/09/2024 06:08

There will be someone else. You must be feeling pretty numb. Try and keep putting one step in front of the other don't blame yourself.
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BulldogMumma · 27/09/2024 06:10

100% there'll be someone else. Men do t usually leave unless they've somewhere to go.
Be prepared for the OW to appear.
A man who can treat you like this doesn't deserve you, let him go. Focus on your child and watch your life improve massively

soberholic · 27/09/2024 06:14

I'm really sorry, I think it's someone else too. I don't know why but men are ship jumpers.

Please focus on yourself regarding food etc over the next few days as not eating will only make you feel worse.

Then yeah, I'd get your finances in order

boxedfresh · 27/09/2024 06:31

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Figuringitout24 · 27/09/2024 06:39

Sounds like the trash has taken itself out.

see this as a positive and start to build your new life away from someone who
is ‘on & off’ with his partner and child.

There will be someone else OP, there always is. Be grateful you can get away from him.

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