Well here I go its a bit long been with partner 12 yrs get Wed soon hes always changing jobs he's had 30 plus in 12 year honestly I.have lost track totally latest one been off 3 week ? We go in holiday soon he was going to provide spending money that's obviously not happening..I.have savings which he classes as ours all he's put into hol is 2 grand which was given to.him anyway by a relative so its all down to me as usual ..my bank account was getting built up I was actually out of my overdraft but am.well and truly back in it now he's supposed to b back to work after our hols not sure it will happen then going on a course so can get diff job course I will b paying for ..when hes in work he does give me money but when.not working won't even consider going in dole so I pay for everything rowed yesterday rowed today I am.just fed up totally I love the bones of him but am so sick