Hi
My sister has been with her partner for 15-16 years. No children not married.
He has a very well paid job and she has followed him around the country so he can work on his career. She has wanted kids but he's not ready. Then about 5 years ago he had an affair. He told her it was over but she knew it wasn't. It went on for years. We now no he was lying to the other women too.
He moved away and she followed. Last summer he broke down told her he was still inlove with this other women. The other women rejected him so him and my sister carried on as normal. Again December he broke down told her he still can't get over this other women. This women then give him a chance.
This time he told her he didn't want her any more and she was crushed. But he was keeping her in the house money wise my sister has nothing and is paid min wage. By July the other women got sick and figured out he was stalling. Now he was staying with her so my sister knew they were together.
Now this other women has made it clear she doesn't want him he's went back to my sis and I'm uttetrly gutted she's took him back. Again. This has been going on for years.
I begged her not to go bk and to break free forever but she won't. I know it's her life but she is ruining her life.
He is a complusive liar and manipulative as hell. But every one thinks he's amazing.
He always lands on his feet.
Any one had similar with family what did u do? Could you help 