Active discussions

Meet the Other Phone. Only the apps you allow.

Meet the Other Phone.
Only the apps you allow.

Buy now

Please or to access all these features

Talk
Relationships

Mumsnet has not checked the qualifications of anyone posting here. If you need help urgently or expert advice, please see our domestic violence webguide and/or relationships webguide. Many Mumsnetters experiencing domestic abuse have found this thread helpful: Listen up, everybody

Original poster

What would you think of this comment? TMI Warning

32 replies

ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 07/09/2024 23:20

Having some sexy time with DH. He tries to wipe a bit of 'pre cum' on my lip with his finger. It looks a bit pink tinged to me, so I refrain and turn my head away.

Later, he comments "Seeing as I won't taste him, he had better taste me then". Like he was having a barb that he would go down on me but I wouldn't allow him to smear cum on my lip. At the time it seemed manipulative or coercive.

Is it?

Or am I overthinking?

Appreciate different perspectives.

OP posts:
HebburnPokemon · 08/09/2024 21:49

Wiping your bodily fluids on someone’s lip without asking sounds fucking gross.

CornishMaid2024 · 08/09/2024 21:52

Sorry I’ve not read all the responses so may be repeating/missing something.
Is your relationship quite new?
I would have said “You go for it” and enjoy the pleasure he gave 🤷🏼‍♀️ then after I would have a conversation about the bodily fluids and explained.

betterangels · 08/09/2024 21:56

Neverheather · 08/09/2024 21:41

He's got bigger worries than you rejecting him here, he needs to see a Doctor ASAP. Pink tinge, possibly blood, needs checking out. I speak from experience. It could be a simple infection but he really needs to see someone medical very quickly.

Yeah, I'd worry more about this.

SpanielPaws · 08/09/2024 22:06

I'd tell him to stop watching porn and to focus on what the real life woman in front of him likes and dislikes instead.

Original poster
ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 08/09/2024 22:10

CornishMaid2024 · 08/09/2024 21:52

Sorry I’ve not read all the responses so may be repeating/missing something.
Is your relationship quite new?
I would have said “You go for it” and enjoy the pleasure he gave 🤷🏼‍♀️ then after I would have a conversation about the bodily fluids and explained.

Nope, not new.Nearly 2 decades in

OP posts:
Original poster
ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 08/09/2024 22:12

@HebburnPokemon Yes it kind of does! I have no issues with smearing cum on my face or my lips when i CHOOSE to do it, but I didn't like his assumption that is was ok for him to do it whenever he felt like it

OP posts:
angstypant · 09/09/2024 08:14

You can tell which commenters have extremely vanilla sex lives. Ir none at all.

New posts on this thread. Refresh page
Swipe left for the next trending thread