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Waste of space partner

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YorkshireMedusa · 06/09/2024 20:29

Friend came from Scotland today for a weekend course, staying in city centre hotel for two nights with partner. Only told me about it on Tuesday or Wednesday and asked to meet for dinner Saturday. Partner said "can't do it" (on text) because of a prior arrangement with a friend, they always go out on Saturday without fail. He wouldn't break it for anything. I'm a writer and have a book launch in a few weeks which is also on a Saturday. The friend comes first.

I'm meeting them by myself. He's told me to make an excuse that he's unwell. I'm not, I'm telling them the truth.

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Mrsttcno1 · 06/09/2024 20:40

Missing a last min thing with your friend because he already had plans is absolutely fine. If you’re telling the truth, then what you should be saying is that 3 days wasn’t enough notice.

Your book thing is different.

YorkshireMedusa · 06/09/2024 20:57

Mrsttcno1 · 06/09/2024 20:40

Missing a last min thing with your friend because he already had plans is absolutely fine. If you’re telling the truth, then what you should be saying is that 3 days wasn’t enough notice.

Your book thing is different.

I realise it sounds a bit mardy of me but there's a history of selfish behaviour from him.

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ncforcatquestion · 07/09/2024 01:16

Just enjoy time alone with your friend. Good luck with your book

Lorelaigilmore88 · 07/09/2024 01:23

The bigger issue for me would be the fact that he isn't willing to be flexible with this Saturday attangement.

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