Hi just looking for some advice, I am in a very happy marriage with my husband , married 10 years. We were at a work party for his job at the weekend.
one of my husbands closest work colleagues was there , he is a nice guy and I know him quite well. His partner wasn’t with him at the party.
we spent a lot of time talking with him at the party, he said in front of my husband and I that “X , you sure have a beautiful wife.” Another time he was standing close to me while I was sitting and he leaned his arm behind me and I could feel his hand gently touching my back. Then apparently he had been asking my husband before the party if I was coming or not , my husband said this in front of him and he got quite flustered saying he just needed to finalise numbers coming - even though he wasn’t organising the party . When I told mr husband I was ready to go home he said something along the lines of “oh you’re looking for some dong” 🙈
Not even sure what I’m asking but I felt a little uneasy after it all… and how I’ll act around him in future .. maybe I’m reading too much into it