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MIL

4 replies

Momoftwo2024 · 01/09/2024 15:20

Hi
I need some advice.
i have been married for 15 years, we both from the same country
i have this problems where my husband become abusive everytime his mom come over to stay with us, fyi, the mom dislike me and my kids, things have gotten more worst recently my husband cheated on me he is not willing to talk or discuss way out i cant take it anymore i want to get out from this relationship.

OP posts:

username44416 · 01/09/2024 15:22

Which country are you in?
Can you get legal advice to start divorce proceedings?

probster · 01/09/2024 15:24

where to start?!

autienotnaughty · 01/09/2024 15:28

Mil isn't your issue. Your dh is . Get some legal advice and plan your exit. The bonus being mil is also out of your life.

TipsyJoker · 01/09/2024 15:32

Leave. Abusive men never change. Their abuse only gets worse. And cheaters never change. They just keep cheating. You’re better off ending the relationship and staying away from him.

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