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Can he be that quick?!

4 replies

MadAlienFromNeptune · 27/08/2024 15:14

An ex work colleague been in touch with me for many mths. He wanted to see me again 2 mths ago after many yrs since last seen each other, then on the day we was to meet up again with plans for the wkend, he disappeared! He immediately blocked me on FB, WhatsApp etc, blocked me on his phone & just literally disappeared w/o warning or explanation. I was really shocked as we got on so well together. I found out he was seeing someone else less than 2 wks after we should've met declaring he has a new lady in his life. I set up a false FB page & saw he is posting photos of them both in hotel rooms & cafes, but what eats me up is, what is wrong with me? What did I do?! I just don't understand how a 65 yr old guy can do this when he knows about my situation & my past telling me he's not like the others!! I do remember his comments & memes on his FB page (before he blocked me), of how he's been crapped on by other women in the past & majority of comments saying he's well shot of them, yet here I am a genuine person & I can't understand it!

OP posts:
SockQueen · 27/08/2024 15:21

He is "just like the others." Don't waste your energy wondering about him.

Comedycook · 27/08/2024 15:22

Why are you giving this so much headspace. It's not particularly difficult to understand. Just forget him.

SnowflakeSmasher86 · 27/08/2024 15:23

Ugh! Well if the ghosting wasn’t bad enough, posting memes about how poorly he’s been treated should have been a warning. Sounds like you dodged a bullet tbh. If/when he comes crawling back make sure you have a killer reply for him.

solice84 · 27/08/2024 15:49

Least you didn't sleep with him
Wish I could say the same on a very similar situation I had

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