My husband never initiates sex. We are down to having sex once a week and even then I still have to initiate or remind him. If I don't, then we have no sex or any other form of intimacy. We have 2 kids and each time after giving birth he moves into spare room as he cannot sleep in same room with baby. Since having kids he has stopped kissing and cuddling. He will hold hands and cuddle when watching TV together. After 7 years together I found out he watches porn after checking his phone. He says it's a stress reliever when hes stressed with work and does not masturbate watching which I think is bizarre. It upsets me so much as though he's having an affair because here I am ready for sex anytime anyday even .