When did you know it was over and did it affect how long you stayed?

[heartbroken22]

I look at him and think I wish I could do anything to turn back time and not have pitied him. I wish I didn't marry him. But I'm going to have to wait a bit older to 'leave'. I know it will be hard but it is what it is.

Why do you have to wait until you can leave?

All the usual
Bad mental health
Heavy anxiety constant all the time
Kids are very young
Have no support from family or friends
Stay at home
Some days are good it's just the constant feeling that I'm the default single parent feeling.