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Where would you leave your drink while on a date? Am I an idiot?

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Overthinker89 · 18/08/2024 08:35

Hi lovely folk. So last night I was on a date with someone i'd met on an app. We stayed for one and he asked if I wanted another. It was going well and I liked his company so i said yes. He got the drinks and brought them to the table (I could see him at the bar), I took a sip, realised I needed the bathroom and said I'd be back in a min. While on the loo I realised I'd left my drink with him and while he seemed nice he was essentially a stranger until this date. Would you do the same? An I am idiot? I have OCD so probably overthinking this. I just want to know if it's normal to leave your drink on the table with a date a few hours in while you pop to the bathroom or whether other people would be paranoid about doing this? I can't work out what is my OCD and what I genuine worry and so asking others if this is something they would of done? We had our drinks parted ways and said a friendly goodbye. We didn't arrange to meet again as it didn't feel romantic but he seemed nice and interesting.

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Josephinesnapoleon · 18/08/2024 08:37

Yes I would leave my drink, it’s vanishingly rare someone will spike you in this context, feasible but hugely unlikely

Neurodiversitydoctor · 18/08/2024 08:38

Yes I would, I can't really see any other option.

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