what would you do if..

[imjustamom]

if your partner was constantly pleasuring himself over other random woman? i've caught some stuff on his phone don't know what to do... even know he paid for content..

Yes
<shudders>

I couldn't stay with someone like that, and I'd sanitise my hands after touching his phone 🤢

it makes me sick honestly i can't even think about having send with him anymore. but something stops me from leaving and i really don't know what is 🤢. it's my fault. the worst of all is i had a baby recently and i feel disgusting especially after this..

I've been in this situation. I found out he had been using live cams(apparently not paying just watching) watching porn and had an account with fansly. He was using live cams on and off for our entire 10-year relationship, and I didn't have the slightest clue. I forgave him because I desperately wanted to keep our little family together. He absolutely knows that if he does it again, we are done. I also have no issue explaining to his family why we have split, if they were to specifically ask me. I have no problem with embarrassing him in front of his family :)

I'd consider this the same as cheating. He's engaging in sexual activity that's with someone else, not you. Makes no difference to me that it's online. I couldn't stay in a relationship like this.