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Love bombing

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Pinklady2007 · 14/08/2024 11:39

Hello I just wanted to ask people's experiences of love boming and if I share my brief experience tell me your views please.
I got talking to a man from a dating site back in June. We went on 4 dates. He seemed very full on but I thought he was just overly keen and would calm down. By date 4 he was asking to come on my already booked holiday with me and my daughter. He told me also he had been banned from driving and his ban was coming to an end, then he mentioned he had to have a medical to get his licence back, so I believe this makes him a high risk driver. I don't drive it is what someone told me. I felt so overwhelmed with him and have now ended things. He was constantly all over me all the time. It is hard to tell the difference between someone who is genuine and is too much. Thanks for reading

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Pinklady2007 · 14/08/2024 17:12

SamW98 · 14/08/2024 17:09

Well done OP. You’ve only got to read the threads on here to see how many women let a man move in quickly and end up with a cocklodger they can’t get rid of.

Even him being at my house has been a wake up call that I need to increase my boundaries. Lived it learned it

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Pinklady2007 · 14/08/2024 17:15

Totally agree!!!!

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Pinklady2007 · 14/08/2024 17:17

SamW98 · 14/08/2024 16:56

Agree with this IP - put boundaries in place so you don’t give potential cocklodgers a chance and be very careful about letting anyone know where you live until you’re far more sure of them.

Cocklodgers I love that saying haha

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Pinklady2007 · 14/08/2024 17:29

Like I said lessons learnt

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Pinklady2007 · 14/08/2024 17:30

They were all grown up, but wouldn't be surprised either

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