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Bf likes all the girls pics on social media

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Lifedecisionsaresohardwhoknows · 01/08/2024 20:22

Hi, a question for the early 30 Yr old ladies.....I say that because I'm 10 years older than my bf. I say bf but we are actually only seeing each other and no one else. I recently found he likes loads of girls photos on social media. Usually the ones they look nice in, you know boobs on show, make up, hair, nice dress etc. He thinks it's normal and not a problem, he thinks it's weird that I have a problem with it. I've said it makes me feel uncomfortable and that I think it sends out the wrong message. If some guy was liking every picture I posted of myself (the nice looking ones), I'd think he had a thing for me. My question is this just me, am I being jealous, is it an age thing, do girls his age feel this isnt a problem? X

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AtrociousCircumstance · 01/08/2024 20:25

It’s sleazy and shows that he is not interested in boundaries around a relationship, isn’t naturally loyal, and doesn’t care how you feel about stuff.

Nothing to do with age. He’s just an immature twat.

EveryOtherNameTaken · 01/08/2024 20:28

Yep. As pp says, nothing to do with age, he's just a sleazy type.

Not very respectful to you. Get rid.

MoonStarsAndRainbows · 01/08/2024 20:31

Yes, his ‘like’ is a way of giving the girls attention. It’s a way of him acknowledging his attraction towards them, so they know.

Why would a man want to do this if he claims to be interested in you?

He sounds immature and sleazy. Of course he will gaslight and make out you are the problem. That’s what this kind of creep does.

Backto03 · 01/08/2024 21:25

It's sleazy, and men of any age see that if they're decent.

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