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Wak21 · 26/07/2024 20:40

Control freak
Because I said he should at least look at me or acknowledge when I'm trying to have a conversation with him about our child.
He didn't look up once or at least say oh ye or anything
Like talking to a brick wall.

Ten minutes later I tried telling him about a hotel then he interrupted about something else completely so I walked away.

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slantedroof · 26/07/2024 20:49

Your OH holds you in contempt.

LTB

TipsyJoker · 26/07/2024 20:56

He’s rude and disrespectful. Does he treat other people like this? How does he interact with people at work, his boss, etc. I bet he doesn’t act this way with them. And if he doesn’t, then he knows it’s rude and acts appropriately. With you he doesn’t care because he thinks you’ll just eat it. And because you’ve called him on it he’s taken to calling you names. It’s bad behaviour and you shouldn’t put up with it.

ThatAgileGoldMoose · 26/07/2024 20:57

Not a control freak. Just somebody who expects, and isn't being given, basic level of respect.

TomatoSandwiches · 26/07/2024 20:57

You are asking for the very basics of human decency when communicating.

He is shit and doesn't even have a modicum of respect for you.

Wak21 · 26/07/2024 21:24

Thanks all
Wasnt expecting this reponse tbh

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StormingNorman · 26/07/2024 21:31

That’s so disrespectful. You did the right thing by walking off.

FloydPink · 26/07/2024 21:46

Sounds just like a typical argument to me!

I dont know if most on here have perfect relationships and mine have been rubbish but arguments happen. Words are said that shouldnt be, go silent, call names. If it happens all the time then an issue, if a one off or rare event I dont see much of a problem

Wak21 · 27/07/2024 13:44

@FloydPink i wasnt arguing at all

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