Just want some advice about how to do this. I am a widow with two primary age DD. I have been with a new (actually old, he was my first love) partner for almost a year. He has hung out with us as a family friend but they are not aware we are involved. We’ve been very careful. There is no intention for him to move in any time soon or even stay over in my room with them around - they like to get into bed with me on weekend mornings and I think that’s more important. But I feel like I should be honest that he is not just mummy’s friend. Any advice on how to handle this? Thanks.