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Lonely, unloved, unwanted

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Bennym8019 · 16/07/2024 00:04

Is it just me or is anyone else out there that feels lonely unloved and unwanted?

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EBearhug · 16/07/2024 00:24

Not currently, but I have often through my life and I suspect it will come round again.

Bennym8019 · 16/07/2024 00:30

Mind if I pm you could use some advice

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Nurseynurse665 · 16/07/2024 00:32

Yep. Single 5 years, no one ever shows any interest in me. Only single one out of my friends, everyone else loved up. It's hard.

Bennym8019 · 16/07/2024 00:32

Sorry to hear that and pm sent

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billyt · 16/07/2024 00:34

@Bennym8019

Probably not the same situation you find yourself in, but since my wife passed away in January I've never known such loneliness.

I hope you resolve your issue soon. Can you pinpoint why you're alone?

Bennym8019 · 16/07/2024 00:38

Cheated on

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billyt · 16/07/2024 00:49

Sorry, definitely not the same. That you've been cheated on sucks. Some people are shits. If it was very recent then it'll be raw. Give yourself some time.

If he's cheated be glad you're rid. I know it hurts but you'll get through it.

It seems it's not that you're unloved and unwanted. It's because your partner has no morals and that one person has hurt you. Not all people are like that.

Don't be sad, be angry that your partner has lost the best thing they had, for a cheap thrill.

LonelyInDville · 16/07/2024 00:58

I definitely feel this way. I was cheated on twice by two men I was with. Broke my heart each time. It’s been 12 years since the second one cheated on me and except for a short insignificant relationship I’ve been alone. I’m in my 50s now so have given up that anything will be different as I’ve been like this most of my life.

Bennym8019 · 16/07/2024 01:00

I'm so so sorry

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