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To be paranoid or not about his female friend

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Alicew00 · 12/07/2024 01:31

My boyfriend is the best I had ever. But tonight made me paranoid. We met up with his long time female friend who lives abroad. She's really nice met her a few times. Around 3 hours into being there for a few drinks he says I should go home. Take my 12 yo home. I thought yes I am work early the next day too. Even though his female friend has a temporary job here and also has to get up early. Anyway his other friend (male) was there and I went home. My bf said he won't be long. Around 2 and half hours later he text me saying he was waiting for a pizza and heading home. Then he text me 50 mins after that saying he was on the way but the taxi usually only takes 10 mins or less. It took half an hour. I'll ask him tomorrow if they ended up going anywhere else when I left. I'm just worried because I've been cheated on before. And my other relationship was domestic abuse and violence.

OP posts:
Katbum · 16/07/2024 18:44

It doesn’t sound like your OH cheated, it sounds like he wanted a night out with his mates and didn’t want a child there after a certain point, which I get.

Choochoo21 · 17/07/2024 21:18

Katbum · 16/07/2024 18:44

It doesn’t sound like your OH cheated, it sounds like he wanted a night out with his mates and didn’t want a child there after a certain point, which I get.

I completely agree.

He was probably fine with you and the child there for a bit but ultimately just wanted an evening out with his friends, which is absolutely fine and normal.

This is an issue in your own head.

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