Missed whatsapp call

[thecatsarecrazy]

I'm Trying not to overthink it I'm just curious how it happens. I was seeing someone for a few weeks only actually met 3 times, for many reasons it was never going to go anywhere. I messaged him last 9 days ago, didn't get much of a reply I replied again but he didn't and I've heard nothing since, so I just left it. No drama just let him bee. He accidentally called me tonight on WhatsApp, not enough for it to make a noise but his name popped up. I couldn't stop myself and just said u OK? And I got yeah u? I said yeah I'm fine thanks I imagine it was an accident but I had a missed call from u so was just checking. He replied yeah I'm still alive.
What's that all about? He stopped talking to me and how do u end up doing that? It's just unnerved me a bit.

It’s unsettling. I can see why you started a thread. He does sound awful though. I think with a lot of men in that age group they are hardly single if they are ‘normal’ bc most choose to stay in the security of relationships they are unhappy in or wait until someone else becomes available so they can just jump ship. Unlike women they fear being single so it’s difficult to encounter them ‘between relationships’. Of course you can question the moral dubiousness of this strategy but it does seek to be a reality for a fair few.

Having said that, decent single ones are out there. Good luck in finding one 💐

It's terribly easy to call someone by mistake, so your interest in trying to work out how that happens implies a degree of interest here.