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sister dont want any of family contact

7 replies

margrose · 05/07/2024 10:36

my sister has shut herself off from all family except one sister she locks herself in house wont answer door or answer any mail we send she has no contact with any of us i have three brothers one sister has had contact with her but sister who does not want any contact with us others has just found out i visit my other sister and now my sister wont speak to me either she is manipulating her

OP posts:
AlexanderArnold · 05/07/2024 10:40

Just respect her wishes. Maybe reflect on why, from her perspective. But, respect this as a communication and don't look for random reasons such as being manipulated.

Nowthereistwo · 05/07/2024 10:40

Leave her alone then

Girlmom35 · 05/07/2024 11:48

As much as it hurts, your sister -or anyone for that matter- is allowed to choose who she interacts with. As are you.
You need to respect her wishes and leave her alone.
Your pain is yours to deal with, although I do understand how painful it can be.

CT2974 · 05/07/2024 12:39

Its sad when this happens but she will have her reasons. Dont push it. Hopefully in time you might be able to find a way back to communicating

IncompleteSenten · 05/07/2024 20:16

Leave her alone if that's what she wants.

Maybe write a letter saying after the letter you will not contact her again but if she ever wants to get in touch, your door will always be open to her.

LadyWhistled0wn · 05/07/2024 20:18

Leave her alone, stop sending her letters.

Just because your blood related doesn't mean she has to have anything to do with you clearly she has good reasons.

Mum2jenny · 05/07/2024 20:19

Let her be, she does not want any further contact. It is HER choice

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