Hi
So this is the first time I’ve done anything like this and I hope you all are gentle with me as I need support and advice not berating
i met my partner a couple of years ago, we both were in relationships and ended up in the same pub. For chatting and from then I knew something was there even a friendship. However I never betrayed my partner and carried on life as normal
scroll a year and my partner leaves out of the blue hasn’t been seen since and just left
then one day the pub girl gets in touch
we start talking and she tells me she felt the same, she is with her ex but the relationship is over and they live seperate lives
scroll a few months and she turns up at my door with all her things so we start a fresh, with the view of when she’s sorted she gets her own place
we meet each others family
we go on holiday we plan our lives
then her ex gets in touch to tell me she’s been seeing her too
my partner tells me it’s due to previous trauma and not being able to let go so it’s spoken about, she gets her own place and we see each other but at a distance
fast forward a month her ex gets in touch again and there living their life
so basically she’s had two wonen
two lives
has deleted me from her world and I don’t know what to do