You deserve to be loved unconditionally, not in the sense where you aren’t held to account for your mistakes, in the sense that you are loved by someone who will love you regardless of your mistakes.
You deserve to be respected, as a woman and as a human. None of this ‘treat me like a princess’ is needed, that’s an unrealistic expectation, but you should be treated with respect. Respect for your opinions, respect for your emotions and feelings.
You deserve to be appreciated, for your humour, your perseverance, your knowledge and your ideas.
You deserve to be heard, whether you’re making sense or not. Some people process their thoughts and emotions verbally, they need to talk it out to make sense of it, and that’s ok.