If your partner uses porn secretly how did you find out?

[SalmonPinky]

Just wondering as DH has v low libido, can go months, and also ED. I’ve posted on here before about it. I can’t see how he’d fit in watching porn tbh but also I guess it might explain the situation.

Now sure porn watching will be the first thought here.
Is low libido/ED new issues? Or did you marry him with that as a known?
Has he been to a doctor?

The obvious is to go through his phone/computer history but he can easily hide that. Are you wanting to catch him in the act?
Alternatively you could suggest watching some together, see if he suddenly knows what he's talking about.

Think I just got spooked by an article in the paper where the bloke who was a porn addict said the only thing his partner would suspect was that he wasn’t interested in sex with her. That’s not quite the case with us anyway but I suddenly worried. Thank you!