Complicated need advice

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Me and my ex split about 6 yrs ago have a son together about 6 mths ago we started Seeing each other but just as fwb as neither of wanted to be with anyone or even with each other but lately I’ve been noticing bits of condom in my knickers he’s not telling me it’s split and denying it ever did when I ask him he smirks slightly tells me he doesn’t want anymore kids (neither do I) but every now and then he keeps saying u might be pregnant he also still saying he doesn’t want to a relationship but phones and yet me all time asks to see me more and wants to spent time together and do things together and sulks when I say no or I’ve to leave also when I phone him he will anwser but then face time me whole were talking on the phone if he doesn’t anwser my call he FaceTimes me instead of calling so I don’t get it all so would like peoples advice and opinions please thank you

He doesn't want a relationship with you. He thinks getting you pregnant again will stop you going with other men.. And using you for sex along the way.
Stop seeing him as anything but your dc's df... He is an awful man.

Stop seeing him unless it's for the baby and stop having sex with him. You can do better. Surely.

he saysdoesn’t want to a relationship but phones text me all time asks to see me more and wants to spent time together more and asks do things together more and sulks when I say no or I’ve to leave when I call him he will anwser but then face time me while were still talking on the phone if he doesn’t anwser my call he FaceTimes me instead of calling

Bits of condom in your knickers??

Anyway, you're not FWB you're in a full blown relationship as far as he's concerned. Time to take huge step back.

He wants it all his way, doesn't he? He is totally ignoring your boundaries.

What about you, what do you want?

I'm pretty sure stealthing is a crime?

Stop sleeping with him and stop giving him access to control you.

You need to stop sleeping with him, he clearly doesn’t respect you. If you’re finding evidence of a split condom, he knows you don’t want more children…and he’s smirking?!

So when he sees you what do you do together? Does it always mean sex or does he help you with something e.g diy or gardening?

this isn’t complicated. You’re fucking him and he wants all the relationship benefits but the option to be single. Kindly, find your self respect, fuck this idiot off and if you find yourself in need of a release I recommend the website bondara

seriously chick, stick to a co parenting relationship only. He can’t keep up his side of the sex only bargain and that’s not what you want x

What do you want?

Why are you worrying about what he wants?

FWB doesn’t work in this scenario, you are damaging your self esteem.

Move on and get rid.

Blimey there's something in the air tonight.

If this is real, just dump him. Easy.

I hope you have your own contraception sorted. If not, you should of got the MAP when you found condom bits in your knickers - which I'm having difficulty comprehending as a first sign that a condom has split or been tampered with.
How does a person not notice during and find evidence after? You need to pay more attention, but better still, quit doing this. Some twisted men get a kick out of the danger factor of unprotected sex. If he does this with others he could give you a sti too.