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Depressed husband

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Mayley03 · 25/06/2024 19:14

Bit of a long story really
Got married sept 2022 after being togev 8 years i got two boys not my husbands 15 and 18 husband got us a house Mortgage it with his dad so not in my name 3 months after we married my husband got diagnosed with a personality disorder since then this is what as happened

Stole from my sons football club blame was but on my son until cctv proved it was my husband .got taking to court had to pay a fine

Stole 11grand off my parents also stole my mums engament ring and my dads wedding ring from there bedroom

Stole money from me and my boys

Stole his own mothers jewellery

Got in debt behind with bills i knew nothing about

Smashed my son tv no proof but all fingers point at my husband

He selfs harms

Bangs around the house with angry

Got sacked from his job for stealing

He got angry with my 15year old son for leaving the kitchen light on my son asked him why he as banging around and got alot of swear words of my husband my son recored this .

Been to council they wont help me move as im not homeless.its unbearable to live with

My husband thinks i should be standing by him i cant what hes put me and my kids through my parents have disowend him so they dont visit me anymore

Dont no what im asking really i just dont know what to do i cant go on living like this i cant stand to be around him just really annoyes me

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Lostworlds · 25/06/2024 23:43

I don’t know much about personality disorders so can’t comment on that but your life sounds tough!
I understand the council won’t help as you’re not technically homeless. Could you speak to womensaid? Is there any chance that you and your sons could stay with family and friends for a while?

I don’t think it’s safe to continue living with your husband .6@£ need to put yourself and your sons first. Is your husband wanting a help to stop stealing and to deal with his anger issues? If no then I don’t see how he can expect you to stand by him.

Mayley03 · 27/06/2024 08:26

Thank you for finding the time to reply to me its something i needed to hear

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