I have been with the same person for pretty much 25 years. I did leave and divorce him after 18 but then he said he had changed!! He has always blamed everything that has happened in our marriage on me. He is disability and has been most of our marriage! I have been there for him through numerous surgeries, addiction, jail and he even left the state where we live for awhile because he was on probation and couldn't stay clean. I took care of everything! We got back together and I am now the one who is disabled and he refuses to give me any kind of emotional support and is constantly putting me down. He says very mean things and knows that he is hurting me and instead of stopping he says he knows he will do it again! I have tried different approaches and no matter what I do it's always just another reason why I am the reason. What do I do??