Dd ex attacked her about a month ago .
There has been talk about supervised contact . With his mother supervising.
Dd ex's mum was in a DV relationship herself. She did report it but then dropped charges. And started seeing him again. Her partner beat her up regularly and also beat his son up (dd ex) .and now the son has gone on to become violent.
Am I horrible to think that maybe his mum is not the best person to supervise?
In the past when dd ex has been nasty to her verbally his mum has been supportive to dd. She would say kind things to her and say things like what's he's doing is not ok. But im not sure it was genuine support. I feel like it was just saying the right words.
Her ex has also been lying to people about what happend. When people ask dd about it she then tells them the truth . And his mum asked her if she can keep things private because her son is really hurting.
There was brief contact with social services due to merlin report. At first they said there could be supervised contact. Them a few days later dd contacted them to tell them about her ex mental health issues. Social worker then said as Dd has now told her about his mental issues he now can't see baby until he's got help for his issues .
I am a bit worried that dd will let his mum see baby on her own. And them she will take the baby to see her son.