Helllo ladies i'm new on here , i'm 58 and yes lot happened in my life worsed one losing my parents it brought me yes I am in a relationship for 15 years we do not live together and we do not intend to live together. He's a good man. He's helped me a lot with jobs around the house. Lots of jobs recently well for the past few years, I've really gone off sex, maybe because I've put some weight on but I've lost him chest this motor life and I'm tired all the time with Work . I just like to come home and chill but my partner like sex cause we've not had sex for a long time well about four weeks to him that's a long time and now he's asking me to wear hold-ups and sex knickers I don't feel comfortable wearing these so he said he'll see how things go in a few weeks time what would you do ladies?