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Am I being unreasonable

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Maree66 · 17/05/2024 21:02

Been gardening cut away brown out of leylandi hedge. Partner come home after he has had a day away and went ballistic with me.i said I had cut the dead brown out he went looking through garden clippings. Cane in waving pieces of leylandi which I must have cut in error as I was careful as I know what he can be like. He called me a liar and was shouting at me as if I'd done domething dreadful..Am I being unreasonable to be feeling annoyed and upset.

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Farmwifefarmlife · 17/05/2024 21:06

That’s crazy behaviour, is this normal?

category12 · 17/05/2024 21:06

He sounds like an angry controlling dick.

If this is the norm for your relationship, then you should think about whether this is good enough for you.

Maree66 · 17/05/2024 21:20

He has been like this for some time. If I do something ,(nothing illegal or terrible,). Eg. If I move furniture around and he doesnt like it he gets annoyed. Its his house I've lived with him here for over 20 years we have no children I have 4 from previous marriage one still at home adult son who will be leaving soon to move in with his girlfriend. I have no way to financially afford anywhere to live. I have just retired I am 66 and I have no where to go but here.

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