(Trigger warning) mentions rape

[WaryPearlWriter]

Bit of background...so seeing nice guy for 10 months. Too soon I know but he was essentially living in my house. It was actually a bit of a running joke with him with the mumsnet term of cocklodger.

Anyhow, last week we sat watching the telly. I nodded off. Woke up to find him gone. I asked where he went. He's dumped me. Fair enough you can dump anyone for any reason. Because he tried waking me up in my sleep and I apparently told him to f**k off.

But I was asleep????? As in not entirely conscious??? Shit reason to end it I think but may be wrong???

Shit has MASSIVELY escalated since then but this is the original reason he's dumped me. Fair enough or a shit excuse?

The police have been to your door twice on the same day?

That’s quite unusual for the police. What was their justification for the second visit which was needed beyond the first?

Protect yourself - write down everything that happened in chronological order. He's messed with your head, so get clear about what happened.

First visit was about how I've 'stalked' him. Second was about my supposed 'rape allegation ' (that I did state that I was not the one who said ANYTHING about rape-he was)

The trash took itself out. Be happy you are free of this user, did he pay for food shopping and cook meals for both of you?
I have lived by the 5 year rule, which is not letting a man move in until we've been together at least 5 years, put your foot down early and a decent guy will respect you, if he is a cocklodger he will be off looking for someone else to sponge off.