Hi all.
Background - we've been married for a couple of years, together for 10. My OH has had issues performing sexually and still does, it's taken a long time for him to open up and discuss things with me, has been to the Dr's and has had tests, etc. Has been prescribed Viagra to use
Since getting married, successfully we've done the "deed" once. We've tried more times but for various reasons it just hasn't worked - tablets haven't taken effect, etc.
We both talk about having children; have done for a long time and we are both in a good place mentally and financially to do this, however of course we need to do the "deed" to make the baby.
Has anyone else had experience of ED? My OH often feels put on the spot when I try and talk about things with him at length, I know he feels like he's disappointing me by not "performing". I also have some health concerns (IBD + PSC) and I feel like I've got some pressure as a result of these, as the 2 issues I have combined, will likely only get worse over time and I don't want to miss my chance to have a child
Thanks all 😊