I spent months talking to a guy and we went on around 7 dates. Then he stopped talking with me. I found it quite jarring as we had spent a lot of time chatting and opening up about our lives. Things were starting to pick up pace. He said he could really see us developing into something special. Then nothing. It's been a few weeks now. He's in his 40s! Not married. He's still very active on the dating apps, so hasn't met anyone he's serious about, I would assume. Is this common? I've never had a man disappear on me without a trace and it's quite horrible. I obviously won't reach out to him.