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Snooping

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bustybetty · 10/05/2024 14:33

Ok I snooped. Partner of 2 years is very secretive and has been caught out many times. Roll on last night - I see two transactions to High Aspirations social networking site - IDNT4U.com is this a dating site? Does anyone know? thanks

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Itsneverme · 10/05/2024 14:36

I think it's a seedy chat site a bit like only fans, walk away you're worth more

Bumblebeeinatree · 10/05/2024 14:37

More of a scamming site than a dating site.

labracadabras · 10/05/2024 14:37

bustybetty · 10/05/2024 14:33

Ok I snooped. Partner of 2 years is very secretive and has been caught out many times. Roll on last night - I see two transactions to High Aspirations social networking site - IDNT4U.com is this a dating site? Does anyone know? thanks

well he’s been caught before? So why aren’t you binning him off?

chdjdjdnfn · 10/05/2024 14:52

It wouldn't occur to me to snoop on what DH has been getting up to, if you feel you need to it's time to call it a day

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bustybetty · 10/05/2024 14:57

chdjdjdnfn · 10/05/2024 14:52

It wouldn't occur to me to snoop on what DH has been getting up to, if you feel you need to it's time to call it a day

I don't trust him

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Bobbotgegrinch · 10/05/2024 15:03

bustybetty · 10/05/2024 14:57

I don't trust him

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Then why are you with him?

ByUmberViewer · 10/05/2024 15:05

I couldn't live like that, I'd rather be single

BodyKeepingScore · 10/05/2024 15:05

@bustybetty if you don't trust him why on earth would you bother snooping? Just leave. The relationship is dead.

IncompleteSenten · 10/05/2024 15:05

If you've already caught him many times then what's the point of catching him this time? Or next time? Or the time after that?
How many times is your limit?

BellaGetBank44 · 25/08/2025 10:26

Did you ever find out cause I see 2 transactions on my husbands phone.

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