Dh just interfered and he can not undrestamd why I am peed off. Would this annoy you?

[DrNortherner]

I had applling customer service in M&S today, got back to work very cross so sent an email to the store manager complaining.

Came home and relayed the story to dh about how crap this woman was. He says "I'll call them and complain too" No says I, you were not there.

So I pop to the gym for an hour. Come back and dh says "I've called M&S"

Turns out he called, gave the same womans name and complained that he too had received terrible service from the same woman.

I am furious.

He says I am being unreasonable here.

But...YANBU to be annoyed..but he was probably just misguidedly trying to help, IMHO

Did you contact the store about the false complaint?

I have to admit I'd be pissed off; to me, it would be like being treated as a child. I expect to conduct my own complaints as an adult.

Taken in the context of his resenting your job, could it be that he is afraid of losing control of you? WOuld a reassuring chat help? Gently pointing out that your fulfilling adults functions doesn't mean you'll be any less close to him.

And I would be extremely annoyed that he's made a false complaint. He needs to contact the store.