Ex's Wedding Invite

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I've been asked by my ex if I would like to go to his wedding reception.
We were each other's "first loves."
I'm happily married to my DH and have been for a decade, there are no feelings on my part but I think it's weird.
Would you want someone who used to have sex with your new husband at the wedding?
The bride has apparently said it's fine but it's not is it?
For context I didn't invite him to mine.
Also I feel it's because a few people have dropped out last minute so they are filling seats. It's in a weeks time so not a lot of notice.
It's also about 3 hrs drive away from us.

We are friends but I haven't seen him since a few months after we ended things. (He took it very badly)

I wouldn't, it's weird. This should be about his future with his new wife. Great that you still get along though!

I wouldn’t bother to drive that far to fill an empty hall for an ex.

The wedding was three months ago.

Im big on respect and if i was his wife id find this disrespectful? Anyone else?

I’d be seriously questioning why my fiancée wants his ex at the wedding especially as there’s no children involved, they’ve only been passing acquaintances over the last few years and she doesn’t live close. if people have pulled out, why is he thinking of his ex to invite, of all people.

Yes, disrespectful
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