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Opinions Please - Strong Gut Feeling

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ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 13/04/2024 22:12

This morning I was in our bedroom putting makeup on when DH came out of the ensuite after showering. He came out into the bedroom, with the towel wrapped around his waist. He walked to his night stand, grabbed a pair of jocks, then went back into the bathroom to put them on.

For context - long time married. Nil body issues, he's not unhappy with his body or shy. Happily, freely naked around each other. Usually, he'd hang his towel up and come out starkers and get dressed in the room.

As this was unfolding my gut immediately screamed at me "There is something he doesn't wan't you to see, he is hiding something" It was such a strong reaction and I also felt physically sick. Now I know people normally say pay attention to those gut feelings. But am I being ridiculous? What does the MN Oracle think?

OP posts:
Didsomeonesaydogs · 13/04/2024 22:18

My guess? He’s been manscaping and doesn’t usually.

ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 13/04/2024 22:22

Didsomeonesaydogs · 13/04/2024 22:18

My guess? He’s been manscaping and doesn’t usually.

But why hide it? He has occasionally manscaped in the past, but no, it isn't a regular thing.

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category12 · 13/04/2024 22:25

You got any other suspicious behaviours going on?

ItsFreedomBabyYeah · 13/04/2024 22:29

category12 · 13/04/2024 22:25

You got any other suspicious behaviours going on?

No. None that spring to mind. I don't normally get "gut feelings" tbh. So the fact I did this morning, so strongly is making me uneasy. I don't know if I should just ignore it....hence why I asking the Oracle :-)

OP posts:
Wherearemymarbles · 13/04/2024 22:40

He’s got a love bite on his cock

SallyWD · 13/04/2024 22:42

Hmm... Can't you just have a look at that area of his body later? Start getting intimate and have a peek?

Comedycook · 13/04/2024 22:43

Perhaps he forgot to do something in bathroom so went back anyway

Didsomeonesaydogs · 13/04/2024 22:48

Maybe it’s a massive boil on his butt.

jelly79 · 14/04/2024 07:06

This sounds like many more innocent reasons could be in play

Have you seen anything suspicious since?

WinterFaye2 · 14/04/2024 07:18

Didsomeonesaydogs · 13/04/2024 22:48

Maybe it’s a massive boil on his butt.

This exactly. Maybe he’s just done it by default too?

NorthernSturdyGirl · 14/04/2024 20:59

I think it is possibly nothing but when it niggles you, it niggles you and so follow your gut instinct. Get frisky or walk in on him in the bathroom by "mistake"and see what is revealed, only way you will find out.

BillieTheFish · 14/04/2024 21:10

Has he tattooed his arse?

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