Am I a dingbat ?

[Dinkiedoo]

People often come to me for advice.
I get bombarded with texts etc
Ive sadly found that once their troubles are over I dont hear from them very often ! Ive obviously served my purpose.

Am I a dingbat ? Too soft ?

Its happened for years. In my last job . In next job I stopped getting involved.

Now its people Ive know for years

No, you're a decent human being. Decent human beings get walked all over.

Type back, 'what do you think you should do'?

When I looked up the word, it's not very complimentary.
Carry on being a nice person, give advice if it's welcome.