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My relationship is so dull

12 replies

dullestofall · 26/03/2024 07:58

No arguments
No fights
No name calling
No violence
No games
No power play
No revenge
No resentment
No jealousy
No other woman

Dull, dull relationship. Boring.
😉

OP posts:
dullestofall · 26/03/2024 07:59

My friends said we are a dull couple because I never have anything to report - I’m never working on my relationship or working things out with my partner.
That was my reply.

OP posts:
ChangeIing · 26/03/2024 08:01

If you think being abused is a sign of an interesting relationship, you’re beyond help.

Bananalanacake · 26/03/2024 08:02

I never argue with mine cos I CBA but we like playing Mario Cart on the Switch twice a month or so.

RRINMIM · 26/03/2024 08:02

ChangeIing · 26/03/2024 08:01

If you think being abused is a sign of an interesting relationship, you’re beyond help.

I think your irony setting needs tweaking

ChanelNo19EDT · 26/03/2024 08:04

My last relationship, I could have ticked off most of the things on your list but he wasn't boring. He was funny. He saw things differently but there was room for my way of seeing things and his way.

So don't talk yourself out of being bored. If you're bored you're bored. Don't tell yourself oh I need to get used to this, it"s actually healthy.

Ask yourself why you are in a relationship that bores you. Personally I'd prefer solitude to boredom.

ChanelNo19EDT · 26/03/2024 08:05

dullestofall · 26/03/2024 07:59

My friends said we are a dull couple because I never have anything to report - I’m never working on my relationship or working things out with my partner.
That was my reply.

Are YOU bored?
Or do your friends think "she must be bored,"

BCBird · 26/03/2024 08:06

What do u think? What does it matter what your friends say? That would not be my idea of dull . Do like being together? If so, no issue IMO

ClareBlue · 26/03/2024 08:07

I think the OP is far from actually bored. They are just saying that there is a perception that without all the drama the relationship must be boring. I agree. In a non drama relationship for 30 plus years but it's not boring.

Outonabranch · 26/03/2024 08:07

OP is being ironic, people!

She’s making a joke!

Sweetheart7 · 26/03/2024 08:07

Next time tell her healthy may seem boring that's what it is!

ChangeIing · 26/03/2024 08:08

RRINMIM · 26/03/2024 08:02

I think your irony setting needs tweaking

I think your literacy is subpar.

olderbutwiser · 26/03/2024 08:11

My relationship is dull like yours too OP. Gives us plenty of time to be happy and have great sex. We are lucky 😁

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