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Is my sister with a married man

5 replies

Lilllypad11 · 24/03/2024 23:29

To preface, I’m useless with relationship advice. My sisters been on 7 dates with a doctor, she likes him A LOT. They get on and have a lot in common. Issues she’s having are that he can take up to a day or two to reply to her messages, which obvs creates inconsistency. He said from the off he’s a bad texter. But she didn’t think it was this bad.

They went on a date and had a make out session in his car, for like an hour according to her. So she texted him to say thanks for bringing her home etc on the Tuesday evening. He then replied on Friday saying that his aunty in another country had passed away and he was unable to text back sooner. She said they normally always plan another date while they’re together but this time he didn’t ask. She now doesn’t know how or whether to ask if he’s free this week.

I’ve told her to just ask the worst he can say is I’m not free no.

thoughts?

OP posts:
TheSnowyOwl · 24/03/2024 23:38

Why do you think he is married?

Married or not, he’s not that into her.

Lilllypad11 · 24/03/2024 23:41

TheSnowyOwl · 24/03/2024 23:38

Why do you think he is married?

Married or not, he’s not that into her.

To clarify. He did reply on the evening after the date saying he had a lovely night etc but then after that she heard off him on Friday. Yeah I’ve told her similar.

OP posts:
allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 24/03/2024 23:41

@Lilllypad11 oh dear! you have reposted with a different title! are you now suspecting he is married?

Lilllypad11 · 24/03/2024 23:43

allthemiddlechildrenoftheworld · 24/03/2024 23:41

@Lilllypad11 oh dear! you have reposted with a different title! are you now suspecting he is married?

Yeah of course! I don’t want my sister hurt.

OP posts:
ouch321 · 24/03/2024 23:45

My thoughts are that I was reading this thread this afternoon and you had lots of replies telling you that it all seemed dodgy and that 'your sister' is quite possibly being taken for a ride.

Have you deleted the original and started a clone thread? In any event noone on here will be able to tell you for certain, they can only guess. Time will tell

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