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Original poster

This feature on an iPhone....

30 replies

Shandalier · 14/03/2024 22:07

So on safari favourites page when it says in a little bar "shared with you" the information/link in there does it mean that you shared it or someone shared it to you?
What was in there and you'll see why I'm asking...was
Xhamster.com

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CactusClaire · 14/03/2024 22:49

eh whats that?

Psychoticbreak · 14/03/2024 22:49

A one second google says porn.

Daisy95 · 14/03/2024 22:51

It's what people have sent you on messages usually, it usually says who sent it too.

gwenneh · 14/03/2024 22:51

It means someone sent it to you, not that you sent it.

Antonio85 · 14/03/2024 22:54

Aye, don't Google it people.

Hermittrismegistus · 14/03/2024 22:58

I would think 'shared with you' means shared with you.

DontBeAPrickDarren · 14/03/2024 23:02

Mine tells me who shared the link with me.

Original poster
Shandalier · 15/03/2024 07:26

I'm just trying to establish if
A. It's been sent to him or
B. He's sending it to someone or
C. If it's a shortcut to the site.

It looks like it's the generic site rather than something specific.

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Idontknowhowmuchmore · 15/03/2024 07:29

It’s a porn website. I know this, because my ex was a porn addict & that was his go to website unfortunately.

Idontknowwhattodo78 · 15/03/2024 07:30

I just googled it and can’t find anything? But, my front screen tells me who shared what with me, so it should show that?

vxa2 · 15/03/2024 07:32

It’s A - shared with him. Mine shows who shared it with me.
C - show as frequently visited.

CadyEastman · 15/03/2024 07:33

Glad he's now your Ex @Idontknowhowmuchmore Flowers

mummaoftwogirls · 15/03/2024 07:34

It's means it been sent to you on iMessage, usually it has a little icon under it with "from" and the contact name

FixTheBone · 15/03/2024 07:39

I suspect that it has been shared by a contact who is either unknown, or who has been subsequently deleted.

I'd see either as good things, in that he either doesn't know the person, or, he's deleted them as a result of them sharing porn links.

Axx · 15/03/2024 07:52

Definitely A

Original poster
Shandalier · 15/03/2024 08:09

mummaoftwogirls · 15/03/2024 07:34

It's means it been sent to you on iMessage, usually it has a little icon under it with "from" and the contact name

Hmm no icons or anything just
Https//....

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mummaoftwogirls · 15/03/2024 09:27

@Shandalier hmm maybe whoever sent it isn't in saved contacts or has been deleted

NotQuiteNorma · 15/03/2024 09:33

Shared WITH you means exactly that. It was shared WITH him by someone else. Otherwise it would say YOU shared with..

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Shandalier · 15/03/2024 10:01

NotQuiteNorma · 15/03/2024 09:33

Shared WITH you means exactly that. It was shared WITH him by someone else. Otherwise it would say YOU shared with..

Interesting why they'd do that more likely he'd be the sharer as I know he's visited this site before...

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ClonedSquare · 15/03/2024 10:20

It means it was sent to you. Mine has websites my driving instructor sent me a link to.

mindutopia · 15/03/2024 10:54

If he's visited the site before, surely it could be that's because someone had shared the link with him. Or he and said friend/contact have a mutual interest in said site and that's why the friend shared it, knowing he would be interested.

It's a run of the mill porn site, so I wouldn't think anything is suspicious about the sharing aspect of it. I would assume that one of his icky friends sent him a link to a video at some point. Dh has an icky friend from school who used randomly spam people with porn.

BranchGold · 15/03/2024 10:56

Is he in any boys group chats?

Original poster
Shandalier · 15/03/2024 16:32

BranchGold · 15/03/2024 10:56

Is he in any boys group chats?

No not at all

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Original poster
Shandalier · 15/03/2024 16:34

mindutopia · 15/03/2024 10:54

If he's visited the site before, surely it could be that's because someone had shared the link with him. Or he and said friend/contact have a mutual interest in said site and that's why the friend shared it, knowing he would be interested.

It's a run of the mill porn site, so I wouldn't think anything is suspicious about the sharing aspect of it. I would assume that one of his icky friends sent him a link to a video at some point. Dh has an icky friend from school who used randomly spam people with porn.

Edited

Just makes me feel a bit sick that either he or someone else is sharing this stuff

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josuk · 15/03/2024 16:43

Its one of the many websites. Fairly known.
Not something anyone needs to share with anyone.
But they all do aggressive spamming marketing.

Why are you obsessing over something this minor? If you have to monitor his pop-ups - what sort of relationship do you have?
Life is really too short for this

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