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Is Hubby Cheating?

20 replies

SaraS12 · 13/03/2024 07:06

While doing the clothes wash, I’ve been noticing powdery white stains in hubby’s pants. I think these could be dry semen.

Have others seen similar stains and what are they? If they are what I think they are, does this mean he’s cheating?

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BBBoe888 · 13/03/2024 07:20

Are there any other reasons you think he's cheating? Even if it is dried semen couldn't he just have been hanging out with Mrs Palm and her five daughters? Has your sex life changed significantly?

SaraS12 · 13/03/2024 07:27

I don’t really have any other reasons to think he’s cheating. I did wonder if it was just him on his own, but then I worry that I’m not enough for him. We’ve both been really busy recently and maybe less intimate than normal, but we had a lovely weekend together that I felt reconnected us, but I’m still finding these stains.

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Mumof1andacat · 13/03/2024 07:32

Has he used talcum powder or sprayed anti perspirant down there? It's quite the allegation to make based on stains. There must be more to these thoughts

Anne4678 · 13/03/2024 07:34

i don’t really think it matters how amazing your sex life Is, a man is still going to ‘hang out with Mrs Palm etc. it’s not a reflection of whether you’re enough or not, it’s really not. If there is no other reason to suspect he is cheating then I wouldn’t worry about that either, you’ll just end up letting it control your thoughts and spoil what is possibly a lovely relationship x

wobytide · 13/03/2024 07:40

Dead skin that rubs off his tallywhacker during the day

SaraS12 · 13/03/2024 07:47

Ok thanks, sound like I’m over thinking this

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HelpMeGetThrough · 13/03/2024 07:48

wobytide · 13/03/2024 07:40

Dead skin that rubs off his tallywhacker during the day

Yep, especially if the shower gel drys out skin.

vidflex · 13/03/2024 07:51

My dh sometimes get Betty swallox so he sprays some powder spray stuff on his conkers.

VestibuleVirgin · 13/03/2024 07:59

This thread is like a parish magazine!
Mrs Palmer, conkers?
Will typing the word wank cause a fit of the vapours?
Do gentlemen of your aquintance faint if they see your ankles?

FrenchandSaunders · 13/03/2024 08:04

Betty swallox 🤣🤣

PinkLemonade555 · 13/03/2024 08:20

Threads like this make me glad I’m single

NotQuiteNorma · 13/03/2024 08:20

Jesus Christ. Wank! Spunk! Bollocks! Cock!

There, fixed it for you 🤠

NotQuiteNorma · 13/03/2024 08:22

PinkLemonade555 · 13/03/2024 08:20

Threads like this make me glad I’m single

Yeah, just imagine a man on here admitting to inspecting his wife's knickers for stains then thinking she's cheating. He'd be slaughtered.

membershipplease · 13/03/2024 08:22

Men can ejaculate a little without having sex or stimulation. They can sometimes let out a little in their pants. I have occasionally had hormonal discharge when I’ve felt frisky and I definitely didn’t cheat 😂 but my knickers had some marks

Savemydrink · 13/03/2024 08:23
Hell Yeah Chicken GIF by 8it

Choking the chicken?

Obeast · 13/03/2024 08:26

Why would anyone repeatedly (or even once) look inside someone’s underwear? Minging.

marsbaralert · 13/03/2024 08:30

Probs been having a wank. That doesn’t mean failure in you by any means.

Men like wanking. It’s no big deal.

brokencrayons · 13/03/2024 12:24

I used to notice this on my toddler boys dark coloured underwear from time to time. I put it down to sone sort of calcification/crystallisation of urine or something

SpringleDingle · 13/03/2024 12:50

I think cheating is one of the last things I'd think of! Talcum powder, dried skin, wanking, discharge ... all seems more likely!

Imjustagirlintheworld · 13/03/2024 14:04

vidflex · 13/03/2024 07:51

My dh sometimes get Betty swallox so he sprays some powder spray stuff on his conkers.

WHAT??? 🤣🤣🤣

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