Don’t know what to do

[Hoolahoola1994]

My boyfriend of 4 years went on a night out brought a girl a drink exchanged numbers and then kept phoning her asking her to go back to his hotel rooms. She messaged me on fb with screenshots of his number. What do I do? Has he cheated on me

no he sounds deeply committed and loving

Ask him?

Nice @thinkinghuts .. really compassionate.
@Hoolahoola1994 whether he did or didn't, the intention and want was there. If (like me) you lie to yourself and excuse behaviours when things get hard, you'll probably want to stay... But you probably shouldn't. This is just the first girl who has told you about it... But there has probably or will probably be others...
Big hugs xxx

The hassling of a woman to go back to his room isn't enough information for you? Don't ask ..,you donr need to know any more.

Finish it. He is a cheater and doesn't respect women's boundaries, yours or hers.

Grim. With any luck you're not living together so you can send him a copy of the screenshot and tell him to enjoy the rest of his life without you.

Don't accept this. Ditch him

Do you want to be with someone who actively pursues other women for sex whenever he has the opportunity? If the answer to question is no, then you know what you need to do.