Just out of curiousty looked it up on net and found this - describes us spookily accurately!
Oh and dd1&dd2 do get on really well (only 3.6 and 14months though ) and they miss each other badly when not together
Aries + Libra
Fire + Air = Hot Air
The air sign of Libra is the opposite sign to yours, Aries. Some astrologers believe that this is a very good combination ? following the old maxim that ?opposites attract?. Well, this is only partly true. It requires closer study.
One of the important contrasts between Libra and Aries is that Libra isn?t as decisive as you. Coming to a decision is like a roller-coaster ride for them. You, on the other hand, aren?t afraid to jump to a conclusion, even if it means making the odd error of judgment. Libra hates to be wrong, but not for the same reason as Aries. You have a strong ego; they just can?t make up their minds!
Libra likes to see things from lots of different perspectives, and will often drive you crazy by arguing ten sides in a discussion. Are they with or against you? Aaargh! You?re not like this at all. You?re quick off the mark about making decisions, and about making your views known.
If you are to work well together, Libra would need to know that you are sympathetic to their broader perspectives. Unfortunately, this will be a rather difficult concession for you to make.
You are both very sociable, but again, you have differnet styles. Libra needs to explore conversations and personalities deeply, whereas you prefer to skim the surface and then move on to new conquests and experiences.
Fire and air do have some compatible components, however. If you take your time with Libra, you will bring out elements in their personality which will fascinate you. But this will happen only if you make the time. Libra will in turn light up your fire. It will take time to tell whether or not a relationship between you is a success ? it will depend on the pace of the relationship and the level of comfort between you.
In the bedroom, your energies will create an exciting union. Your emotional and sexual rapport will be strong, and your initial meeting could spark an instinctive sexual attraction. Overall, Libra will inflame your sexual fire because of its air-like nature; it will also have a gradually refining influence on you.
You?ll be mesmerised by those born in the period between 23 September and 3 October, and your initial friendship can transform itself into deeper love bonds. Your ruling planets are extremely well matched.
A unique friendship could develop with someone born between 4 October and 13 October. A sense of duty may undermine the relationship at some stage, though. If this relationship is going to work, the feelings between you must be completely transparent. This will be the foundation of your connection.
Libran people born between 14 October and 23 October have an uphill battle keeping their day-to-day affairs grounded. Mercury?s flightiness is very evident in them, and this could drive you to distraction.