Been on my own for 2 yrs. the kids dad has had a girlfriend for about 6 months who they have met and are fine with. I am thinking of trying dating sites, but I have no photos I can use (I literally hate photos of myself and look ridiculous in selfies), so I could ask my 17 year old to take some for me, but she would ask why as I spend my life avoiding cameras. Should I just tell the truth at her age or make something up?