Help, i think I've slipped into the friend zone with my husband

[Mrsblackforrestgateaux]

I've felt like me and my husband have slipped into the friend zone. We've been married for 12yrs, together 17yrs and have 2 kids but recently I've been wondering if I've fallen out of love with him. Any ideas how I can fall back in love with him? He recently went away for 3 nights and I quite liked being alone with the kids. Don't think its helped by the fact I think I might be perimenopausal and have totally lost my sex drive. Not sure why I've posted but just wondered if anyone else has felt the same way before?

Hi, yes, I feel like I'm in the same position or feeling like this...only been married for 10 years though and not sure if I've ever been that interested in sex but 40 in a few months..not sure when perimenopause hits? Definitely here for a chat as I'm struggling with my thoughts and lack of feelings for my husband and no one to chat it through.