Kissing after first dates?

[Lilllypad11]

I haven’t dated in 6 years. Was in a relationship where my ex decided to cheat on me. So now I’ve just decided I need to get myself back on this. I’ve been on a few dates and I do kiss the guy at the end. Oftentimes I don’t hear off them. I don’t full snog just a quick peck.

is it off putting. Should I stop doing that? Do they make quick judgements??

What do YOU want to do?

I like sex on the first date personally, if I'm feeling it. I offer what I feel like though - I've certainly had dates where I just did cheek pecks or nothing,.and some where it's a proper kiss. I don't have rules as such. Maybe some judge me for it, why would I care about that? I'm.not forcing anyone to spend time with me.

I don’t think a peck on the cheek is going to have any influence on anyone. I doubt anything you’re doing is off putting, it’s just a numbers game..

I just feel like if the chemistry is there I’ll go for the kiss. But it’s not passionate snog. Sometimes I just want to have sex on the first dates too but fob them off after😅

Why not a passionate snog, if the chemistry feels good?