I know! Why do we take cheaters back?

[Ilovemeggy38]

Why on earth do we do it?
I fucking hate him

I took my cheater back because I wasn't told could survive enough, it was afraid x l thought i couldn't survive enough x

I've honestly no idea why some women do.

I wouldn't so we don't but, according to MN, there are far more women who do than I realised. I really don't understand it.

Read this
https://www.amazon.co.uk/Leave-Cheater-Gain-Life-Survival/dp/0762458968

Because life is complicated and sometimes it's Hobson's choice.

Women who stay after an affair (I'm one of them) are judged enough. I refuse to judge myself. I didn't betray anyone.

I think a lot of people, a sizeable amount really, live with another adult for financial reasons 😕

I stayed with mine for my reasons. Then he said something to me what was unforgivable and I'm divorcing him. I don't regret staying with him before but this time it isn't a case of regret. It's an absolutely no way can I be with you anymore.

It is a real shame that when a woman does decide to stay with her cheating partner that other women are cruel, unsupportive, unkind, aren't capable of understanding why and can't just give support.

FWIW I turned out to be much stronger that I realised and I am so happy to be getting divorced from him. If you want to leave then you'll get all the support you need but don't stay because of a misplaced thought you can't manage without him. You can. If you decide to stay then it's no one else's business and you owe no one an explanation.

Many reasons not my though of course they were mine.