Am I a bad mum

[Twimum23]

partner and I just had a bit of a tiff and he turns round and said I’m the worst person to have a baby with baring in mind we have twins and that he didn’t to have kids with me from the start….. it’s just mad me feel really low and just wanna cry

probably not. But he is a shitty partner and father.

No. But he is a terrible father.

What's your next step?

I don’t honesty know atm all I wanna do is sit and cry atm just Made me feel worthless I no we have had tiffs in the past but to say something like that when all I do is put 100% to my boys when he won’t even change their nappy

Seems like he just went for a low blow and said the cruellest thing he possibly could. I’m sure there’s nothing real in it and quite honestly it says much more about him than you!

Did he say he wanted DC's at the start ? Maybe 100% on the twins is the issue he has, doesn't leave any of your time for him. There's men who suss that being involved not only builds a bond with DC's, but also frees mum up to give them some attention too. Then there's the ones who sit back, watch mum do it all, then winge that they don't get attention ( or quietly disconnect while justifying to themselves that it's your lack of attention that is at fault).