Partner threatened me

[gallgirl]

My partner is abusive, and agressive he said he was going to dig a hole in the garden for me. He was laughing and made out he was joking. He is very critical of me.

You need to speak to Women's Aid. Get things in place to leave.

Then he needs to be an ex partner.

Hi
you don’t deserve to be treated like this, you deserve to live in peace without the threat of violence and abuse. Leave, pack a bag and go to your parents / a friend. If you have kids together / own your house together, still leave but in a different way, barring order. Call Womens Aid they can help. you’re stronger than you think Leave this a**hole and start living again.

He is not your partner. He is your abuser.

I agree. You need to get away from him.