So my partner works the weekdays leaving at 6 or 7am and works until 2/3pm .
On weekdays he doesn’t stay at mine but he’ll come stay over on the weekend or one day during the week when he doesn’t have work the next day or wants the day off work.
When he does stay round he goes to bed round 1/2am which is what I do sometimes but I’m up and ready for the kids at 7am or 8am who are ages 3 and 1 and he sleeps in until 4pm . I do wake him up in the mornings round 11am and tell him I need him to wake up but he gets really annoyed so I leave him . It does frustrate me so much and I end up in a bad mood all day I just want to clean and I can’t do that when he’s in bed till stupid o’clock.
He had a late night the day before yesterday ,so when he had come to mine last night he went straight to bed at 7pm which was good so he could have a fresh start next day . From then he woke up this morning at 2am and so did I to have a drink and go to bed and told him he should go back to bed but he’s said he’s going to stay awake as he has to leave at 6am for work . As I woke up at 7am to drop little one to nursery this morning he’s there asleep (think he must’ve went to bed at 6) so I woke him up to watch our 1 year old whilst I drop the other one to nursery which is what he did but when I had got back from her nursery he’s gone back to sleep and now still asleep right now…